Wednesday, June 1, 2011

"Teens Should Be Perfect"

The development of positive self-esteem during the teenage years can translate into success in adulthood. Many teenagers face obstacles in reaching that point, however, in the form of peer pressure and other problems. Since many teenagers are reluctant to seek help or talk to their parents, knowing some of the typical self-esteem blockers can assist parents in helping their their teenager reach his potential.

  1. Appearance or Body Image

    • Your teenager's body is changing and developing at a rapid pace. With these changes comes confusion, questions and concerns. Add to that media images bombarding your teenager with how she should look and act, and many teenagers are insecure about their looks. Many teenagers become concerned about their body and appearance during this time anyway, and those who feel they don't measure up to media or peer standards can become depressed and moody. Some teens may binge or go on crash diets to try to change the way they look. Other teens may experiment with different hair, makeup and clothing styles to deal with their feelings.

    Peer Pressure

    • Your child's peers have a huge influence over her during these impressionable years. If your teenager feels she will be ostracized or made fun of for a particular behavior or asset, she can become self-conscious. During this time period in your child's life, relationships changes and other teenagers can be cruel and hurtful. If your child is the target of verbal or physical bullying, she may experience a serious blow to her self-esteem.

    Parental Expectations

    • Parents want their children to succeed. However, you may be placing extreme pressure on your teenager to be successful, and this may cause her to feel upset with herself if she cannot meet your expectations. Comparisons between siblings can have a similar effect. Your teenager may receive similar pressure from school teachers or other important people in her life. Watch for agitation, depression or becoming withdrawn from favorite activities, which could indicate your teenager is struggling.

    Abuse or Neglect

    • Teenagers who suffer from abuse or neglect, whether at the hands of a parent, peer or significant other, are bound to develop self-esteem issues. Many teenagers will blame themselves for the abuse occurring, leading to self-deprecation, depression and anxiety issues. Teenagers may be reluctant to disclose the abuse for fear of retaliation or rejection by others. This can lead to isolation, further complicating your teenager's already fragile self-esteem.



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Friday, May 27, 2011

Racism

'Racist' school bus drivers 'refusing to stop for young Muslim girls who are wearing the hijab




'Racist': Bus drivers have been accused of ignoring girls wearing the hijab(scarf)
School bus drivers have been accused of racism after failing to stop for pupils wearing Muslim hijabs.

Young girls have claimed they are being bullied on board for dressing in the traditional veil which covers the head.To avoid trouble, ‘cowardly’ drivers are allegedly ignoring pupils who wait at bus stops wearing the headscarf.Following a police investigation, officers will now be drafted on to board the buses to protect the students from ‘racist’ taunts of other passengers.

The problems centre on Merseytravel and pupils attending West Derby's Holly Lodge Girls' College in Merseyside, where 10 per cent of the 11,274 11 to 18-year-old students are from ethnic minorities.

Members of the Muslim community said the issue was a long-running one.

Amina Ismail, who works at Liverpool John Moores University, was approached by the victims.

She said: ‘They said people driving past were being abusive because they were wearing the hijab.’ 

Ms Ismail said bus drivers refusing to stop were ‘cowardly’ and that ‘they should not push their own personal prejudices on young people’.

She urged people to ‘see past the scarf or skin colour and look beyond this’.

Holly Lodge has previously won praise from Ofsted for its ‘promotion of equality and diversity’.

Headteacher Julia Tinsley said: ‘There have been a small number of cases where ignorant people have directed racist comments at our pupils while they are on buses.

‘It is completely unacceptable and very upsetting for those involved and we have provided support to those affected. ‘We welcome the assistance from Merseyside police in tackling the mindless minority who think it is acceptable to make racist comments.’Merseyside police has produced an action plan to prevent any further incidents, including looking at how victims can pass on anonymous information.A spokesman said the force was committed to tackling racism, adding: ‘We will be putting police community support officers on public buses during the periods these incidents are happening to reassure passengers and deter would-be offenders.‘CCTV will be routinely checked following allegations of any criminal offence.’ 

However, Colin Carr, regional adviser for Unite - whose members include bus drivers - said he would be surprised if they were failing to stop.‘The union would condemn this kind of action, and equality and diversity is something we promote across the spectrum,’ he said.Merseytravel said it condemned ‘all acts of racism’ and, after probing the claims, has ‘now drawn up an action plan to deal with and prevent any further incidents’.



Thursday, May 12, 2011

Media

What people do and see affect the way they act!

Movies and Television have influenced Teenagers for years. Whether it is a matter of seeing a movie character doing drugs, drinking alcohol, or even smoking a cigarette. In fact Medical News Today has done a study with 600 films and 5,000 students and has found out that movies play an important role in a teenager's decision to drink at a young age.

"Each year that kids delay experimenting with alcohol can help them avoid some of the serious consequences that drinking at a young age can contribute to, including drinking and driving and alcohol dependence," said the lead author of the study Dr. James Sargent, professor of pediatrics at DMS. "This study is aimed at the prevention of early alcohol use and our hope is that parents of young children become more aware that drinking in films is common and that seeing these depictions can lead to early experimentation with drinking."
This really shows how a two movie or even a 30 second commercial can really make an impact on a teenager growing up. They know drinking underage is wrong but when they see it in movies or on TV they think it looks fun.

Alcohol isn't the only problem that results from movies. Smoking is also a big problem as well. Even when it is in the movie as casual as can be it can still implant a message in the viewer's brain.
According to WebMD, "teens are twice as likely to have early sexual intercourse as those who are rarely exposed to sexual content" And the movies try to put sex or sexual situations in their movies as much as possible because of the term "sex sells".



It is a matter of pop culture. Teens decided what they wear, what music they listen to, how they talk, what kind of people they hang around, what they drink(alcoholic or not), what they eat(or in some cases don't eat), and many other factors. They can see their favorite fun loving pirate asking "why's the rum gone?" and suddenly start thinking "I love pirates a lot. Maybe I should try rum if they do" This is just one example of the media's influence on teenagers. Teenagers seem to be brainwashed from either movies or television.



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Monday, April 25, 2011

Legal Drink Age

Should The Drinking Age Be Lowered?


If a woman is old enough to sign a contract, buy a house and get married, isn’t she also old enough to sip champagne at her wedding? If a man is mature enough to serve on a jury or risk his life in a war halfway around the world, isn’t he also mature enough to drink a beer?

And didn’t we have this debate almost 40 years ago?

Yes, we did. Back in the 1970s, when young men were conscripted to fight in Vietnam, 29 states lowered their drinking ages to 18, 19 or 20. But in the following decade—when neither war nor the draft were issues but young drunk drivers were—the debate was revived. Faced with a loss of federal highway funds, every state by 1988 had raised its drinking age to 21 (with exceptions in certain situations).

Now, some researchers, educators and lawmakers say it’s time to have that debate all over again. Partly, there is a historical echo, as soldiers considered old enough to kill and be killed in Iraq and Afghanistan can’t have a farewell toast legally at their hometown watering hole. More broadly, however, many question whether a drinking age of 21 is a good idea at all—whether, in simple terms, it creates more problems than it purports to solve.

“It’s bad social policy and bad law,” says John McCardell, the former president of Vermont’s Middlebury College, who in January launched an organization called Choose Responsibility to urge lower drinking ages in conjunction with education and heavy regulation of 18- to 20-year-olds. “ Prohibition does not work. Those [under 21] who are choosing to drink are drinking much more recklessly, and it’s gone behind closed doors and underground and off-campus.”

No one is suggesting that 18-year-olds should drink themselves into a stupor. Rather, critics of the current drinking laws point out that a sizable minority of 18- to 20-year-olds, and roughly a fifth of 16- and 17-year-olds, already drink heavily often or on occasion. Indeed, the 21 drinking age isn’t so much a law as a slogan: Even supporters concede it is widely flouted and often not enforced. Yet, because 18-year-olds—adults in most other senses —generally can’t drink legally in bars and restaurants, they tend to drink in dorm rooms, on isolated fields and at unsupervised house parties, where adults can’t watch them. And in those environments, the drinking can be dangerous—especially among young people who have no practical experience with alcohol yet years of exposure to a social and advertising culture that encourages drinking.

“They don’t drink the way we drank a generation ago,” says Cynthia Kuhn of Duke University, an expert on the effects of drugs and alcohol. “There’s an increasing minority who establish blood-alcohol levels that are nearly lethal.” A practice known as “front-loading”—getting drunk on cheap liquor before a night out—is common, and alcoholic blackouts are no longer rare. “It used to happen to the weird, stupid kid who couldn’t hold his liquor, and he did it once,” says Kuhn, who teaches alcohol education to student groups. “Now, it’s typical.”

At the College of William & Mary in Williamsburg, Va., front-loading is called “pre-gaming,” explains Melissa, a senior who drank illegally for three years. “We’d sit in our dorm rooms—18- and 19-year-olds—and try to drink as much as possible before going out. I think it goes on at every college. No one cares, even when they get caught. They think a speeding ticket is worse.”

Drunkenness also spawns other problems—from assaults and rapes to accidents and alcohol poisonings, both fatal and nearly so. Young adults who are drinking illegally are reluctant to summon help when things go wrong. “If a student passes out, in the old days there was usually someone around to check,” says Alan Marlatt, a psychology professor at the University of Washington who helped develop a widely used alcohol-screening program called BASICS. “Now everyone’s afraid of getting caught.”

Critics of the 21-year-old drinking age contend that it is almost universally ignored and breeds a cynical disrespect for the law. About 80% of people have tried alcohol by age 20. Fairness aside, though, perhaps there is another pressing concern. “How can we reduce the harm?” asks David J. Hanson, an alcohol researcher and professor emeritus at the State University of New York at Potsdam. “I think we should teach young people how to drink as well as how not to drink.”

That’s the idea behind Choose Responsibility: The group promotes intensive education and drinking licenses for 18-year-olds, akin to learner’s permits for young drivers. Get caught drinking before 18 or break any of the strict rules after that, and the license is gone.

“We’re never going to get rid of underage drinking,” says John McCardell. “But if a kid knows he has to stay clean in order to get a license at 18, that’s a pretty powerful incentive.”

It’s not a radical notion. The rest of the world would likely find it rather cautious: Only three other countries—Mongolia, Palau and Indonesia—restrict purchasing drinks to those 21 or older. (Of course, some countries restrict alcohol for all citizens.) But the idea is far from mainstream in America. A 2005 ABC News poll, taken on the 21st anniversary of the 1984 federal law that forced states to raise their drinking ages, found that 78% of the public opposed a lower age; at the same time, 75% also said underage drinking was a “serious problem.” In the last three years, legislators in Vermont, New Hampshire and Wisconsin have introduced bills to lower the age (though only for military personnel in Wisconsin and New Hampshire), all of which have quietly withered.

Mothers Against Drunk Driving was the main force behind that 1984 law. It now dismisses McCardell as a dangerous gadfly. “Holy cow, this literally involves life and death,” says Charles A. Hurley, MADD’s chief executive officer. “Life-and-death issues of kids are really too important for off-the-cuff musings.”

MADD and other supporters of the 21 law—who far outnumber the critics—point to, among other things, a ream of studies showing a strong correlation between a higher drinking age and a reduction in drunk-driving wrecks involving teenagers. Indeed, the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration estimates that nearly 25,000 fewer Americans have died on the road because of the higher age. “We already did the experiment of lowering the drinking age [in the 1970s], and traffic crashes went up,” says Ralph Hingson of the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism, a former MADD vice president. “I don’t think it’s a good idea to go back and repeat a policy that made things worse.”

In response, McCardell and others say they suspect that various factors contributed to the reduction in fatal alcohol-related wrecks: More people today use seat belts, air bags have become standard, police checkpoints and zero-tolerance laws are more common, and MADD has done a tremendous job of stigmatizing drunk driving. And if the goal is to reduce drunk driving among those under 21, some suggest that the driving age should be raised. “The fact that driving is 16 here and drinking is 21 is the wrong way around,” says Alan Marlatt.

Meanwhile, what about the young adults who are drinking themselves to death off the highways?

On the night of Sept. 16, 2004, Gordie Bailey and 26 other young men gathered in a forest outside Boulder, Colo., as part of an initiation ritual. Between them, they drank seven liters of whiskey and nine liters of wine in less than an hour. When the bottles were empty, they returned to a fraternity house at the University of Colorado. Gordie’s fraternity brothers found him dead in the morning.

“Changing the drinking law may not have saved Gordie,” says his stepfather, Michael Lanahan, who helps run a family foundation focused on hazing and reckless drinking. “The total environment has to be looked at. The worst thing is to drive these kids underground.”




What do you think of underage drinking?



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Friday, April 1, 2011

Violence

Teen violence is the second main cause of death!
 
Things that increase the chances of being involved in violence
  • Being in a gang
  • Use of drugs or alcohol
  • TV influences behavior. If it didn't, Nike, Budweiser, Pepsi, etc. would not invest billions of dollars in advertisements.
  • Violence on TV occurs in most programs and more so, in cartoons.
  • By age 12 the average child has witnessed at least 8,000 murders and more than 100,000 other acts of violence on television.
  • Thousands of studies have shown that violence on TV can influences behavior and attitudes among children who watch it.
  • While not all researchers agree, the Surgeon General reports that TV violence is linked to aggressive behavior in children who view violent shows. Similarly, American Medical Association, American Psychological Association, UNESCO, and US Attorney General, have all reached the conclusion is that TV violence is linked to the proliferation of violence in our culture.
  • The proliferation of violence and pornography on the Internet has become a significant factor in desensitizing children to violence and sexual crimes against women, children and vulnerable minorities.
  • In summary: Violence in the media, whether it is reflected in music, cartoons, wrestling shows or movies, can desensitize children to the effects of violence, legitimizes and glorifies violence and increases aggressive behavior in those who watch it on TV or the Internet. One must remember that there are more significant factors, such as child abuse, domestic violence, gangs in the neighborhood, that are likely desensitize people to violence or increase violent behavior.

 Ways to help prevent teen violence
  • Get counseling
  • Remove weapons from home that could be used by the teen in an act of violence
  • Limit access to violent movies, t.v shows etc
  • Have good communication with children 
  • Talk to an adult about bullying 
  • Avoid showing anger
  • Set limits and expectations




http://www.teenhelp.com/teen-violence/getting-help-violence.html
http://students.ed.uiuc.edu/catey/TeenViolence.html
http://www.zurinstitute.com/teenviolence.html#tv

Thursday, March 31, 2011

Depression



Depression is a serious mental disease. 
You feel prolonged sadness, frustration, anxiety.

Treatment
Depression is very much treatable. There are a lot of treatment options available. And about 80 to 90 percent people find relief using them. Don’t get worried if you are experiencing any symptoms of depression, you can surely cure it just like any other disease.

Depression Warning Signs 
  • "blue" mood
  • loss of interest
  • frequent outbursts 
  • sleep disturbances
  • increased or decreased eating
  • fatigue
  • difficulty in concentrating 
  • suicidal thoughts 
  • alcohol and drug abuse 

Teen depression is not a static emotion, but rather may vary from moment to moment, month to month, or year to year. It is subjective and abstract, and must be viewed in all its biological, psychological and environmental complexity in order to be understood. Some adolescents will exhibit the classic symptoms of depression as outlined above. Other teens may describe a sensation of feeling "empty" inside. Some adolescents may stay too busy to feel much of anything, while having an intuitive sense that to slow down would bring on depression. Others may go through the motions of school and life but experience no joy. Some teens may appear strong and independent, but feel lonely and isolated from classmates. Teens who have been subjected to early traumatic experiences, such as physical, sexual, or severe emotional abuse, may be depressed but unable to describe what they're feeling (the thoughts and memories may be too frightening to allow into consciousness.) Teen depression can be different for all people. 

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Stress

It is hard to convince a high-school student that he or she will encounter a lot of problems more difficult than those of algebra and geometry.
-- Edgar W. Howe



 Stress is often just thrown on teens. Some things that could stress out teens are:
  • work
  • school work
  • relationships
  • family problems 
  • peer pressure
  • expectations of parents or teachers to be perfect 


Boys and girls deal with stress in many different ways,
 
For boys
  • 25% avoided or refused to deal with their stress, 
  • 23% sought ways to distract themselves away from their stress, 
  • 17% sought support, and 
  • 35% actively tried to reduce their stress.
For Girls
  • 19% avoided or refused to deal with their stress, 
  • 14 % sought ways to distract themselves away from their stress, 
  • 22% sought support, and 
  • 45% actively tried to remove or reduce their stress. 

According to these statistics boys more often used the tools of avoidance and distraction while girls looked for support and actively tried to reduce their stress. Girls also think that they experienced more stress then boys, stemming largely from their relationships with boys and friendships with girls. Boys attributed their stress to authority figures, (teachers).


People of all ages have different signs of stress and cope with stress in many different ways.



















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